love someone, TELL them, if you don't.. TELL them,
the human heart is a very complex thing in that it
makes us do the strangest things when it reaches a
point of desperation especially when we are
hurting.
I'm sure many of us have reached that point where
we find ourselves attacking the competition "In
the name of Love" even attacking the object of
your affection, some of us have even found
ourselves hiding behind bushes or tagging the car
playing spy.
At the end of it, all relationships, whether
friendships or romance needs two elements to
survive- communication and compromise
And it needs another two elements to fall apart -
pride and stupidity. Too proud to say I'm sorry,
too proud to say I'm hurting, too proud to say I'm
feeling a little insecure.
And so stupid, stupid enough to let them go
because you think they will be back, stupid enough
not to tell them that you love them because you
think they will stick around longer if you play
hard to get, stupid enough to not answer their
calls when you have a fight because you want to
make them hurt and you want to teach them a lesson
they'll never forget...
Watch out you are not the one who learns a
lesson...
If its worth a great Person walking out of your
life, possibly for good.. then by all means Knock
yourself out.
But don't cry when that person never calls again,
or finds solace in another's arms. or throws them
self off of a twenty story building because the
pain you were causing them was too much to bear.
(stupid but serious)
Don't cry when a beautiful relationship is broken
and can't be fixed because YOU chose to play games
instead of laying your cards on the table and
working it out.
Say exactly what you feel and ask exactly what you
want to know. No matter how STUPID you sound... At
least you will know exactly where you stand.
And even if after you've poured your heart out and
it still doesn't work out..
You will be at peace because you know you did your
best on your part...
Your conscience will be clear and you will move on
knowing that you didn't go down without a fight.
Loving someone is not a game.
People are not pyramids... you can't go off on
your own selfish trip and expect to find them in
the exact same spot you left them weeks ago.
If you don't take care of your partners needs when
they need you to. What guarantee do you have that
somebody else won't?
So when you find your partner in your best
friend's arms or hear they are getting married to
someone you had guaranteed was just a "rebound
trip" three months after you let them Go without a
fight...
Don't cry... Coz while you were busy playing
games... Somebody else wasn't.
Love without reservations; live without
regrets………………!!!
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